Jeremiah Brent is the latest addition to Queer Eye (he’s replacing Bobby Berk—it’s been a whole thing), and if your immediate response to this news was he’s gorgeous I must know everything about his personal life, then buckle up. Because Jeremiah’s relationship with interior designer Nate Berkus is best described as beautiful as well as several other adjectives (cute? adorable? romantic? pick one). Here’s a comprehensive timeline of their relationship if you need to know absolutely everything.
December 8, 2012
Nate hops on Instagram and uploads this photo of Jeremiah. Cue the ’ship speculation!
December 14, 2012
Page Six (via Us Weekly) announces that Nate and Jeremiah are officially dating, with a source saying, “They were kissing at the sunglass rack in the [Barneys] men’s section.” Incredible reporting, no notes.
Anyway, these two actually first connected during a “friend hang” while looking at antiques. As Nate put it to People, “I was sitting in a brown leather chair and we were just talking. And I remember thinking to myself, Oh god, what is this? This is not what I thought it was. There was something about him that, in his presence, I just felt so safe.”
Just FYI: Jeremiah’s former boss Rachel Zoe is the one who introduced them!
December 17, 2012
Things quickly get cute—despite Instagram filters being in their flop era.
February 10, 2013
And Jeremiah and Nate are pretty clearly in love—despite only being a few months into dating!
March 23, 2013
Four months into their relationship being public, the couple makes their red carpet debut.
April 8, 2013
Nate and Jeremiah get engaged in Peru (at the top of Machu Picchu!). Nate is the one to pop the question, and Us Weekly reports that Jeremiah is “completely surprised.”
This is a picture taken right after they made it official, and they look beyond happy!
August 7, 2013
Nate tells CBS, “It’s been really interesting. Being engaged is such a strange stage because you’re not married and you’re not dating. It’s interesting the questions people ask when you’re engaged. They want to know every detail about the wedding. And it’s like, ‘We just got engaged. We’re celebrating the fact that we got engaged.’ Jeremiah and I are really excited about it though.”
August 31, 2013
Have you ever seen a better looking couple? (Rhetorical.)
September 17, 2013
Jeremiah calls Nate the best person he knows 🥹.
November 24, 2013
Point is...they’re really good at birthday posts.
February 14, 2014
And Valentine’s Day posts, turns out!
May 5, 2014
Nate and Jeremiah marry at the New York Public Library, the dreamiest location possible. Naturally, a ton of celebs are in attendance including Oprah Winfrey, Rachael Ray, Katie Lee, and Busy Philipps. Pics from the wedding incoming!
March 23, 2015
Nate and Jeremiah welcome their daughter, Poppy! Nate announces the news on Facebook, writing, “We are so excited to finally be a family of 3! As anyone with a newborn knows, we have our work cut out for us but couldn’t be happier to be embarking on this life changing journey that is parenthood.”
May 7, 2016
Two years of cuteness locked in.
November 30, 2016
Nate and Jeremiah reunite with Rachel Zoe (who, reminder: introduced them) at an event:
April 8, 2017
Nate and Jeremiah’s first show together, Nate & Jeremiah By Design, premieres on TLC. (Psst: It ran three seasons).
September 17, 2017
Truly becoming resentful that I am not in this relationship.
October 24, 2017
Just a chic European trip to make their friends jealous (why else does one go on vacation?).
March 26, 2018
The couple welcomes their son Oskar, who is named after Nate’s former partner Fernando Bengoechea, who tragically died in a tsunami. Jeremiah told People, “We have always honored Fernando’s memory in our relationship. He’s a part of our love story. It’s such an important chapter in Nate’s life. So the idea that we can honor his memory in a beautiful way was exciting to us.”
September 17, 2018
Just FYI, nothing will compare to being in Nate Berkus’s arms. (Or so we hear.)
November 24, 2018
Another day, another sweet birthday post.
February 14, 2019
^ Not to be outdone by Valentine’s Day.
May 3, 2019
Quick throwback to their first kiss as a married couple!
November 5, 2019
Jeremiah says meeting Nate was “cellular” for him. Crying.
April 11, 2020
Enjoy this mid-pandemic PDA moment.
September 24, 2020
Jeremiah calls Nate the only thing that matters, and I’m literally this close to tears.
June 28, 2021
This relationship timeline is starting to rival The Notebook in terms of pure romance.
September 17, 2021
In case you’re looking for a caption to copy for someone’s birthday:
October 5, 2021
The couple launches their new show on HGTV, The Nate and Jeremiah Home Project.
February 14, 2021
Never felt lonelier, in case you’re wondering!
June 20, 2021
Nate celebrates Jeremiah on Father’s Day.
November 24, 2021
Caution: Do not read this without tissues.
February 2, 2022
Jeremiah and Nate film a cute retrospective of their relationship, if you’re in the mood to become a puddle.
February 21, 2022
Aesthetic.
July 31, 2022
PDA pt. 1
August 3, 2022
Just them doing a cute couples quiz, don’t worry about it.
September 9, 2022
PDA pt. 2.
December 25, 2022
The family celebrates Christmas, and their kids are so cute!
January 24, 2023
Nate and Jeremiah realize the NYC home they first lived in—which they gave up during their move to Los Angeles—is back on the market! It’s honestly so emotional to know they were able to move back into a place that meant so much to them:
They even gave AD a tour of the home:
February 14, 2023
It’s Valentine’s Day again, so:
May 3, 2023
The couple goes back to the spot they got married in!
June 1, 2023
Nate and Jeremiah celebrate Pride Month with their kids.
November 3, 2023
We’re 10 years into this timeline, so there are no words left.
November 24, 2023
Again, no words.
February 14, 2024
Ten Valentine’s Days together, done! and! dusted!
February 24, 2024
Netflix announces that Jeremiah will replace Bobby Berk on Queer Eye!
March 2, 2024
Just casually hanging with Oprah at Jeremiah’s book launch party:
March 21, 2024
Nate celebrates the publication of Jeremiah’s new book!
And that *breathes exhausted but happy sigh* brings us up to date. We’ll be updating this timeline with more cuteness as it happens!
